fix(calls): DM-aware rejoin toast, and no rejoining a DM call that ended (#302)

After a reload during a DM call the toast said "You were in the call in
Bob Builder"; it now says "You were in a call with Bob Builder". DM
calls are never auto-rejoined (it could ring the other person), and if
they have left by the time you tap, the toast says "Call ended" instead
of starting a new, ringing call.

Fixes #302

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_017PCb59uY3UKqDqt7B6hzd5

src/app/hooks/useCallRejoin.ts

@@ -17,6 +17,8 @@ import {
   CALL_SESSION_HEARTBEAT_MS,
   clearCallSession,
   decideRejoin,
+  othersInCall,
+  rejoinToastBody,
   readCallSession,
   writeCallSession,
 } from '../utils/callRejoin';
@@ -112,6 +114,27 @@ export function useCallRejoin(embed: CallEmbed | undefined, joined: boolean): vo
       };
       dismissToast(TOAST_ID);
       clearCallSession();
+      // [Gitea #302] A DM call the other person has since left is over;
+      // starting it again would ring them, so just say so.
+      const dm = l.directs.has(room.roomId);
+      if (
+        dm &&
+        !othersInCall(
+          session.memberships.map((m) => m.userId ?? ''),
+          mx.getUserId() ?? '',
+        )
+      ) {
+        // Own id: clicking a toast removes it by id after its onClick runs.
+        setToast({
+          id: `${TOAST_ID}-ended`,
+          iconSrc: Icons.Phone,
+          displayName: 'Call ended',
+          body: `${room.name ?? 'They'} already left the call.`,
+          roomName: room.name ?? '',
+          roomId: room.roomId,
+        });
+        return;
+      }
       try {
         (l.directs.has(room.roomId) ? l.startDmCall : l.startRoomCall)(room, pref);
       } catch {
@@ -133,6 +156,7 @@ export function useCallRejoin(embed: CallEmbed | undefined, joined: boolean): vo
           .filter((m) => m.userId === mx.getUserId())
           .map((m) => m.deviceId),
         memberCount: memberships.length,
+        dm: latest.current.directs.has(room.roomId),
       });
       // The RTC session fills in a moment after sync; keep waiting while it is
       // empty unless this is the final (timed-out) look.
@@ -152,7 +176,7 @@ export function useCallRejoin(embed: CallEmbed | undefined, joined: boolean): vo
         id: TOAST_ID,
         iconSrc: Icons.Phone,
         displayName: 'Rejoin voice?',
-        body: `You were in the call in ${room.name ?? 'a room'} before the restart. Tap to rejoin.`,
+        body: rejoinToastBody(room.name, latest.current.directs.has(room.roomId)),
         roomName: room.name ?? '',
         roomId: room.roomId,
         sticky: true,