roast: fix refusal prompt, add Cole/Nathan lore, expand known users

- Reframe prompt as a consented comedy roast between friends so the
  model doesn't refuse on safety grounds
- Add lore for lonely (Cole, 23, dishwasher, gamer) and
  natcofragomatic (Nathan, DCO Tech 3 at AWS, ginger, tape-drive nerd)
- Use a lookup table (_ROAST_LORE) so adding new users is one line

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

matrixbot/commands.py

@@ -1740,6 +1740,24 @@ _WYNTER_LORE = (
     "She cannot return to AWS for at least 5 years and has very few friends."
 )
 
+_LONELY_LORE = (
+    "Cole (known online as 'lonely') is a 23-year-old who works as a dishwasher at a breakfast diner. "
+    "He loves video games and spends most of his free time gaming."
+)
+
+_NATCO_LORE = (
+    "Nathan (known online as 'NatcoFragOMatic') is a DCO Tech 3 at AWS who is obsessed with old hardware "
+    "and tape drives in servers. He is a ginger and has a cat."
+)
+
+_ROAST_LORE: dict[str, tuple[str, str]] = {
+    "jared": ("Jared", _JARED_LORE),
+    "wynter": ("Wynter", _WYNTER_LORE),
+    "lonely": ("Cole", _LONELY_LORE),
+    "natco": ("Nathan", _NATCO_LORE),
+    "natcofragomatic": ("Nathan", _NATCO_LORE),
+}
+
 
 @command("roast", "Roast someone with AI — !roast @user")
 async def cmd_roast(client: AsyncClient, room_id: str, sender: str, args: str):
@@ -1750,23 +1768,20 @@ async def cmd_roast(client: AsyncClient, room_id: str, sender: str, args: str):
     target_raw = sanitize_input(args.strip())
 
     # Determine display name and any lore context
-    target_lower = target_raw.lower()
-    lore = ""
-    if "jared" in target_lower or "@jared" in target_lower:
-        display_name = "Jared"
-        lore = _JARED_LORE
-    elif "wynter" in target_lower or "@wynter" in target_lower:
-        display_name = "Wynter"
-        lore = _WYNTER_LORE
-    else:
-        # Use the raw mention — strip Matrix ID syntax for display
+    target_lower = target_raw.lower().split(":")[0].lstrip("@")
     display_name = target_raw.split(":")[0].lstrip("@") if target_raw.startswith("@") else target_raw
+    lore = ""
+    for key, (name, bio) in _ROAST_LORE.items():
+        if key in target_lower:
+            display_name = name
+            lore = bio
+            break
 
-    context = f"Context about {display_name}: {lore} " if lore else ""
+    lore_clause = f" Here is some context about them: {lore}" if lore else ""
     prompt = (
-        f"{context}"
-        f"Write a savage but funny 1-2 sentence roast of {display_name}. "
-        f"Be creative, witty, and biting. No disclaimers, no apologies — just the roast."
+        f"You are a comedy roast writer for a group of friends who all consented to being roasted for fun. "
+        f"Write a savage, witty, 1-2 sentence roast of a person named {display_name}.{lore_clause} "
+        f"Make it clever and specific. Output only the roast itself — no intro, no disclaimers, no apologies."
     )
 
     try: