Adds io.lotus.focus_participant (toWidget): the host can pin a participant
to the spotlight by Matrix user id (or clear with userId:null), via a
manual override injected into CallViewModel.spotlightSpeaker$. Replaces
cinny's fragile DOM .click() tile-selector focus hack. Extracts the action
enum into lotusActions.ts (no circular import) and allow-lists Lotus
toWidget actions in initializeWidget. Additive: no-op unless the host
sends the action.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>