feat(lotus): in-frame screenshare button where the host can't delegate (cinny #43)

Firefox, Safari and WebKitGTK have no Capability Delegation, so the host
can't start a share from its call bar: getDisplayMedia needs the click in
this frame. Until now the host clicked EC's hidden footer button through
the DOM, which only works while the frame is same-origin.

With lotusHostControls + lotusFrameScreenshare the fork now shows EC's own
screenshare button (floating bottom-right, footer still hidden), so the
click is native. controls_state reports frameScreenshare so the host hides
its own button. New toWidget io.lotus.set_frame_screenshare { visible }
lets the host hide it while the room's call policy forbids screensharing
(never while a share is live, so it can still be stopped).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01PPmy3tPq869XDW4njjVaKA

src/lotus/LotusFrameScreenshare.module.css

@@ -0,0 +1,8 @@
+/* [cinny #43] EC's screenshare button, floating in the frame's bottom-right
+corner while the host draws the rest of the call bar. */
+.floating {
+  position: fixed;
+  right: var(--cpd-space-4x);
+  bottom: calc(env(safe-area-inset-bottom) + var(--cpd-space-4x));
+  z-index: 1;
+}