feat: v0.12.0 Settings window, per-session Remote Control, delete conversations

- Settings (⋯ → Settings…, palette): theme, terminal text size, interface
  size, notifications, Remote Control & privacy. The ⋯ menu shrinks.
- Remote Control per session: registry choice > Settings default >
  DEVDESK_REMOTE_CONTROL. Switching an idle session restarts its Claude
  on the same conversation; busy sessions change at the next start.
  rc_active comes from the running process; RC tag on sessions.
- --delete-convo: remove a conversation's local transcript and subagent
  files; refused while in use. Delete… in Search past conversations.
Closes #61

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01WHRLCCdXYm41Qx5kNhehaP

bin/devdesk

@@ -80,6 +80,8 @@ cmd_list() {
         --argjson ctx "$(per_session_json "$DEVDESK_CONTEXT_DIR")" \
         --argjson st "$(per_session_json "$DEVDESK_STATUS_DIR")" \
         --argjson tags "$(per_session_json "$DEVDESK_STATE_DIR/tags")" \
+        --arg rclive "$(dd_rc_live)" \
+        --argjson rcdef "$(dd_rc_default)" \
         --arg dflt "$DEVDESK_DEFAULT_SESSION" \
         --arg root "$DEVDESK_PROJECTS_ROOT" '
         def rows($s): $s | split("\n") | map(select(length > 0) | split("\t"));
@@ -98,7 +100,10 @@ cmd_list() {
                         activity: null, windows: 0,
                         claude_session_id: (.value.claude_session_id // null),
                         worktree: (.value.worktree // null)}))
-           ) | map(. + {context: ($ctx[.name] // null), status: ($st[.name] // null), tags: ($tags[.name].hosts // [])}),
+           ) | map(. + {context: ($ctx[.name] // null), status: ($st[.name] // null), tags: ($tags[.name].hosts // []),
+                         remote_control: (($known[.name].remote_control) as $own | if $own == null then $rcdef else $own end),
+                         rc_active: (.name as $n | $rclive | split("\n") | any(.[]; . == $n))}),
+           remote_control_default: $rcdef,
            projects: ([{name: $dflt, dir: $root}]
                       + [rows($proj)[] | {name: .[0], git: (.[1] == "1"), dir: (.[2:] | join("\t"))}
                          | select(.name | test("^[A-Za-z0-9][A-Za-z0-9_-]{0,63}$"))])}'
@@ -203,6 +208,78 @@ cmd_unsplit() {
     jq -cMn --argjson c "$closed" '{ok: true, closed: $c}'
 }
 
+# Sessions whose running Claude has Remote Control on, read from the processes
+# themselves (devdesk#61), one name per line.
+dd_rc_live() {
+    local session window pid child
+    dd_server_up || return 0
+    while IFS=$'\t' read -r session window pid; do
+        [ "$window" = claude ] || continue
+        for child in $(pgrep -P "$pid" 2>/dev/null); do
+            if tr '\0' '\n' <"/proc/$child/cmdline" 2>/dev/null | grep -qx -- --remote-control; then
+                printf '%s\n' "$session"
+                break
+            fi
+        done
+    done < <(dd_tmux list-panes -a -F $'#{session_name}\t#{window_name}\t#{pane_pid}' 2>/dev/null)
+}
+
+# The Claude process of a session's claude window, if any.
+dd_claude_pid() {
+    local pid
+    pid=$(dd_tmux list-panes -t "=$1:claude" -F '#{pane_pid}' 2>/dev/null | head -n1)
+    [ -n "$pid" ] && pgrep -P "$pid" 2>/dev/null | head -n1
+}
+
+# --remote-control NAME on|off (devdesk#61): the session's own choice. A running,
+# idle Claude restarts on the same conversation right away; one that is working
+# or waiting gets it at its next start. Prints {ok, remote_control, applied}.
+cmd_remote_control() {
+    [ $# -eq 2 ] || dd_die "usage: devdesk attach --remote-control NAME on|off"
+    local name=$1 value applied=saved pid state
+    dd_valid_name "$name" || dd_die "invalid session name: $name"
+    case $2 in on) value=true ;; off) value=false ;; *) dd_die "on or off" ;; esac
+    { session_exists "$name"; } || dd_die "no session named '$name'"
+    # shellcheck disable=SC2016 # jq variables
+    dd_registry_update '.sessions[$n] = ((.sessions[$n] // {}) + {remote_control: ($v == "true")})' --arg n "$name" --arg v "$value"
+    if dd_server_up && dd_tmux has-session -t "=$name" 2>/dev/null && pid=$(dd_claude_pid "$name") && [ -n "$pid" ]; then
+        state=$(jq -rM '.state // empty' "$DEVDESK_STATUS_DIR/$name.json" 2>/dev/null) || state="" # no state yet: idle
+        if [ "$state" = working ] || [ "$state" = waiting ]; then
+            applied=next-start
+        else
+            mkdir -p "$DEVDESK_STATE_DIR/restart"
+            touch "$DEVDESK_STATE_DIR/restart/$name"
+            kill -TERM "$pid" 2>/dev/null || true
+            applied=now
+        fi
+    fi
+    jq -cMn --argjson v "$value" --arg a "$applied" '{ok: true, remote_control: $v, applied: $a}'
+}
+
+# Remote Control default for new sessions: Settings, else DEVDESK_REMOTE_CONTROL. true/false.
+dd_rc_default() {
+    local def
+    def=$(jq -rM '.remote_control_default | if . == null then empty else tostring end' "$DEVDESK_STATE_DIR/settings.json" 2>/dev/null)
+    if [ -n "$def" ]; then echo "$def"; elif [ "${DEVDESK_REMOTE_CONTROL:-0}" = 1 ]; then echo true; else echo false; fi
+}
+
+# --settings [remote-control-default on|off] (devdesk#61): DevDesk-wide settings
+# kept in $DEVDESK_STATE_DIR/settings.json; prints them.
+cmd_settings() {
+    local file="$DEVDESK_STATE_DIR/settings.json" tmp
+    if [ $# -eq 2 ]; then
+        [ "$1" = remote-control-default ] || dd_die "unknown setting: $1"
+        case $2 in on | off) ;; *) dd_die "on or off" ;; esac
+        tmp=$(mktemp "$DEVDESK_STATE_DIR/.settings.XXXXXX")
+        jq -cM --argjson v "$([ "$2" = on ] && echo true || echo false)" '. + {remote_control_default: $v}' "$file" 2>/dev/null >"$tmp" ||
+            jq -cMn --argjson v "$([ "$2" = on ] && echo true || echo false)" '{remote_control_default: $v}' >"$tmp"
+        mv -f "$tmp" "$file"
+    elif [ $# -ne 0 ]; then
+        dd_die "usage: devdesk attach --settings [remote-control-default on|off]"
+    fi
+    jq -cMn --argjson d "$(dd_rc_default)" '{ok: true, remote_control_default: $d}'
+}
+
 cmd_rename() {
     [ $# -eq 2 ] || dd_die "usage: devdesk rename OLD NEW"
     local old=$1 new=$2 running=0
@@ -388,7 +465,7 @@ cmd_attach() {
         dd_linger
         return
         ;;
-    --peek | --search | --last-reply | --unsplit)
+    --peek | --search | --last-reply | --unsplit | --remote-control | --settings | --delete-convo)
         local action=${1#--}
         shift
         "cmd_${action//-/_}" "$@"