feat(threads): Slack-style per-thread notifications (P4-1)

Default = Participating: thread replies notify only when you've posted in the
thread or are @mentioned; per-thread override to All / Mentions-only / Mute via
a bell menu in the thread panel header. Modes sync across devices in
io.lotus.thread_notifications account data (pruned on write: left rooms, >180d,
cap 200/room). Muted threads: no notifications/sounds, chip badge suppressed
(+BellMute glyph), and their counts are subtracted from the room's sidebar
badge (client-side; clamped ≥0).

Also fixes the thread notification path itself: thread replies are now owned by
exactly ONE handler (room-level ThreadEvent.NewReply via a new useRoomsListener
hook, with per-thread dedupe, panel-aware focus suppression, and per-thread OS
tag coalescing) — the existing RoomEvent.Timeline handlers in the notifier and
the unread binder are explicitly thread-guarded, eliminating the previously
un-gated/double path. Room badges now also refresh live on
RoomEvent.UnreadNotifications (surgical per-room PUT; fixes thread-badge lag).

Pure decision core shouldNotifyThreadReply (13-case matrix) + prune + unread
subtraction: +32 tests (648 total). E2EE caveat documented: mentions-only may
under-notify pre-decryption (same class as the existing path).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/app/features/room/thread/ThreadPanel.tsx

@@ -23,12 +23,21 @@ import { useKeyDown } from '../../../hooks/useKeyDown';
 import { useSetting } from '../../../state/hooks/settings';
 import { settingsAtom } from '../../../state/settings';
 import { RoomInput } from '../RoomInput';
+import {
+  getThreadNotificationModeIcon,
+  ThreadNotificationModeSwitcher,
+} from '../../../components/ThreadNotificationModeSwitcher';
+import { useThreadNotificationMode } from '../../../hooks/useThreadNotifications';
+import { ThreadNotificationMode } from '../../../utils/threadNotifications';
 
 type ThreadPanelHeaderProps = {
   room: Room;
+  threadId: string;
   requestClose: () => void;
 };
-function ThreadPanelHeader({ room, requestClose }: ThreadPanelHeaderProps) {
+function ThreadPanelHeader({ room, threadId, requestClose }: ThreadPanelHeaderProps) {
+  const mode = useThreadNotificationMode(room.roomId, threadId);
+
   return (
     <Header className={css.ThreadPanelHeader} variant="Background" size="600">
       <Box grow="Yes" alignItems="Center" gap="200">
@@ -40,7 +49,36 @@ function ThreadPanelHeader({ room, requestClose }: ThreadPanelHeaderProps) {
             {room.name}
           </Text>
         </Box>
-        <Box shrink="No" alignItems="Center">
+        <Box shrink="No" alignItems="Center" gap="100">
+          <ThreadNotificationModeSwitcher roomId={room.roomId} threadId={threadId} value={mode}>
+            {(handleOpen, opened) => (
+              <TooltipProvider
+                position="Bottom"
+                align="End"
+                offset={4}
+                tooltip={
+                  <Tooltip>
+                    <Text>Notifications</Text>
+                  </Tooltip>
+                }
+              >
+                {(triggerRef) => (
+                  <IconButton
+                    ref={triggerRef}
+                    variant="Background"
+                    aria-label="Thread notifications"
+                    aria-pressed={opened}
+                    onClick={handleOpen}
+                  >
+                    <Icon
+                      src={getThreadNotificationModeIcon(mode)}
+                      filled={mode !== ThreadNotificationMode.Default}
+                    />
+                  </IconButton>
+                )}
+              </TooltipProvider>
+            )}
+          </ThreadNotificationModeSwitcher>
           <TooltipProvider
             position="Bottom"
             align="End"
@@ -137,7 +175,7 @@ export function ThreadPanel({ room, threadId, requestClose }: ThreadPanelProps)
       shrink="No"
       direction="Column"
     >
-      <ThreadPanelHeader room={room} requestClose={requestClose} />
+      <ThreadPanelHeader room={room} threadId={threadId} requestClose={requestClose} />
       {!thread ? (
         <Box grow="Yes" alignItems="Center" justifyContent="Center" gap="200">
           <Spinner size="400" variant="Secondary" />