fix(calls): one delayed-event restart in flight per id, with a timeout (#318)

During a homeserver stall Element Call retries update_delayed_event every
2 s, and the host opened a new HTTP request each time: 12 pending in a
60 s stall, all landing together on recovery (404 x5, 429 x7). Share the
in-flight restart per delay id and abort it after 5 s.

Refs #318

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_017PCb59uY3UKqDqt7B6hzd5

src/app/plugins/call/CallWidgetDriver.ts

@@ -28,7 +28,10 @@ import {
 } from 'matrix-js-sdk';
 import { getCallCapabilities } from './utils';
 import { downloadMedia, mxcUrlToHttp } from '../../utils/matrix';
+import { dedupeInFlight } from '../../utils/inFlight';
 
+/** A little longer than Element Call's own 2 s timeout for a restart. */
+const RESTART_TIMEOUT_MS = 5000;
 export class CallWidgetDriver extends WidgetDriver {
   private allowedCapabilities: Set<Capability>;
 
@@ -129,8 +132,18 @@ export class CallWidgetDriver extends WidgetDriver {
     await this.mx._unstable_cancelScheduledDelayedEvent(delayId);
   }
 
+  // [Gitea #318] While the homeserver is stalled, Element Call times out each
+  // restart locally after 2 s and asks again, so requests for the same delay
+  // id piled up and hit the server together on recovery (404s, then 429s).
+  // Share one in-flight restart per id, and give it a timeout of its own.
+  private readonly restartOnce = dedupeInFlight<unknown>();
+
   public async restartScheduledDelayedEvent(delayId: string): Promise<void> {
-    await this.mx._unstable_restartScheduledDelayedEvent(delayId);
+    await this.restartOnce(delayId, () =>
+      this.mx._unstable_restartScheduledDelayedEvent(delayId, {
+        localTimeoutMs: RESTART_TIMEOUT_MS,
+      }),
+    );
   }
 
   public async sendScheduledDelayedEvent(delayId: string): Promise<void> {