ui: forward dialog avatars, poll TDS, delivery icon, caption focus, boot hint

ForwardMessageDialog:
- Room list now shows small avatars (48px crop) + DM label beneath room name
- Forward is now async: spinner overlay while in-flight, '✓ Forwarded' only
  shown after sendEvent resolves; error clears sending state so user can retry
- Search bar hidden in success state for cleaner confirmation view

DeliveryStatus:
- QUEUED state used ⏳ emoji breaking the ASCII/terminal aesthetic; changed
  to ⟳ matching the SENDING/ENCRYPTING icon

PollContent:
- Added data-poll-content + data-poll-answer + data-selected attributes so
  TDS CSS can override inline styles without JS branching
- Added data-poll-content-label on the ◉ Poll header
- TDS dark: answers get cyan dim bg/border, selected gets orange highlight
  with subtle box-shadow; hover brightens border; label uses cyan glow
- TDS light: equivalent blue/orange variants

Caption input:
- Marked with data-caption-input; focus-visible ring added in index.css
  (blue for default, dark-theme dark blue) and lotus-terminal.css.ts
  (orange glow for TDS dark, orange for TDS light)

Boot sequence:
- Added '[ ESC ] skip' hint at bottom-right of overlay so users know
  they can dismiss it without waiting

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/app/components/message/content/PollContent.tsx

@@ -216,6 +216,7 @@ export function PollContent({
 
   return (
     <Box
+      data-poll-content
       direction="Column"
       gap="200"
       style={{ maxWidth: '340px', paddingTop: '2px', paddingBottom: '4px' }}
@@ -223,6 +224,7 @@ export function PollContent({
       <Box
         alignItems="Center"
         gap="100"
+        data-poll-content-label
         style={{
           fontSize: '0.68rem',
           fontWeight: 700,
@@ -251,6 +253,8 @@ export function PollContent({
             <button
               key={id}
               type="button"
+              data-poll-answer
+              data-selected={selected}
               onClick={canVote ? () => handleVote(id) : undefined}
               style={{
                 padding: '7px 12px',

src/app/components/upload-card/UploadCardRenderer.tsx

@@ -188,6 +188,7 @@ export function UploadCardRenderer({
               placeholder="Add a caption… (optional)"
               value={metadata.caption ?? ''}
               onChange={(e) => setMetadata(fileItem, { ...metadata, caption: e.target.value })}
+              data-caption-input
               style={{
                 marginTop: '6px',
                 width: '100%',
@@ -199,6 +200,7 @@ export function UploadCardRenderer({
                 color: 'var(--text-primary)',
                 outline: 'none',
                 boxSizing: 'border-box',
+                transition: 'border-color 0.15s, box-shadow 0.15s',
               }}
             />
           )}